You Are The Loyalist
You hesitate to speak up or act on what you truly want, especially if it could upset someone close to you.
In conflict, guilt can keep you quiet. You value loyalty and keeping the peace, but too often that means abandoning your own needs.
Within conflict, you often second-guess your choices, worry about upsetting others, and end up sidelining your own needs.
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It’s possible to choose yourself and still keep your relationships intact.
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Next time you find yourself in a situation that you feel you have to compromise yourself to keep the peace, try out saying one small no.
Or take one small action that’s just for you, even if it ruffles a few feathers.
Notice what it feels like to choose yourself.
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When guilt is your default, it’s hard to rewrite the rules alone. Rekindle offers the structure and support to listen to your own voice, with people who know how deeply ingrained this pattern can be.
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You adapted in the best way you knew how. Now it’s time to learn a new way with support by your side.
Join Rekindle for how to set kind boundaries, tools to work through guilt, and support from a community that’s learning to do the same.